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Also, it is more acceptable to see an interracial couple than ever before.

All kinds of people are getting together to explore differences, seek commonalities, and experience love.

Everyone reading this is probably well aware that they're bogus, but if you've ever caught yourself thinking any of these, it's time to stop.

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I am not exactly sure why it is completely sinister for a white man to want sex while it is just regular lousy or typical for a black man to want it. Believe it or not it's about the best way I can think of to sabotage a relationship.

Does anyone really think every single black guy they meet or that tries to talk to a black woman is interested in a relationship? [It was the Beatles who sung "I Want To Hold Your Hand" while hip hop gives us "Til Sweat Drips From My Balls"] I just think this is a tactic used to make black women so (subconsciously) leery and paranoid about white men they don't really give them a chance. If you would have sex with a black guy after a week but want to hold out over paranoia of a white guy for months, it'll create distance, suspicion you don't really think white guys are all that attractive, and make us wonder where the relationship is even headed if you vastly preferred your past boyfriends enough to have sex with them so much sooner.

We even see black men with white women, a paradigm that is still taboo in some parts of the country, the last vestiges of a racially divided society. Why is it we don’t often see black women with white men?

Black women aren’t opposed to dating white men per se.

A con of all cons, that can cause somebody like me to pass you by in an instant.

Interracial relationships have lost the stigma they once had, and in fact we are seeing interracial and interethnic dating and marriage in America now more than ever.

Singles looking to mingle are increasingly crossing cultures to find their perfect partners. You may be from one culture and your potential honey is from another.

(Think swirled ice cream on a cone.) Mixed ethnicity families are on the rise in the UK (source: BBC), and according to The Guardian, nearly 1 in 10 people in England and Wales are in inter-ethnic relationships.

For example, some cultures may seem more ‘aggressive’ than others. After all, racism is still alive and well in our supposedly post-racial times.

However, as human beings we all make pre-judgements against each other.

Open your mind and your heart to the possibilities for love. Neither of you should see the other as a chief ambassador or racial educator for your group.

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