Dating divorced man with children

As long as your boyfriend is unwilling to marry you without his son in attendance, your plans for a wedding will be out of your reach.

I am not a financial advisor or a lawyer so I cannot advise you on the risks facing you should you remarry.

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Any decent man will put his kids first before your relationship.

If you are not willing to accept the baggage that comes with dating a divorced man you should date someone who has never been married.

Having dated a divorced guy, I can speak from experience of what to do and the mistakes to avoid if you do decide to go down this path with a divorced guy, especially if they have kids.

DATING MISTAKE 1: I ignored the signs of his opinion on kids.

If you are dating a divorced man with children, you need to fully understand what you are getting yourself into.

It irks me when women date a divorced man and then complain that their boyfriend is paying too much child support and alimony. You have to expect that if your boyfriend has an ex-wife and kids, he must fulfill his financial and parental obligations to his first family.

By putting more pressure on him, I pushed him away.

To avoid adding pressure, make sure that you know that you are both on the same path.

I've never felt like this, so it's hard for me to turn my back on it just because they aren't happy with it. Coming from experience, it is really up to you if it is worth it. I feel ill about it all now and am deciding if I can, and will it always be like this. I want to be married and possibly have kids of my own. I don't want to be in the same place I am now a year from now and I'm really worried I will be. Guy, I appreciated reading the other post you send.

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