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Some are ready to date again shortly after their partner dies. What’s perhaps most important is that the widow(er) is comfortable with the timeline and isn’t reentering the dating world because of the outside pressure to “get back out there.” Not Ready? For a widow(er) to be ready to enter a new relationship, he/she has to feel comfortable looking past their grief and focusing on loving a new individual.
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The deceased spouse wasn’t perfect; comparing yourself to an image of a saint isn’t fair to either of you.
As a follow-up to our article, here are more thoughts on navigating the often tricky waters of dating someone who is beginning to date after grieving the untimely loss of their partner or spouse – from Members of our own Widow/Widowers community here on e Harmony Advice, in their own words.
Many have had comfortable, long-term relationships and have gotten secure in their daily existence.
Some may not have ever dated another woman, because they married the first woman they ever met.
Everyone mourns differently, so widows/widowers must be careful not to let other people dictate the speed of their recovery.”“Too many variables to say what is right for anyone the old year thing is probably wise as a minimum. I didn’t quite make the 1 year wait to date thing…and I made a mess, I think I will use 5 years to remarry as a minimum.“This is variable, and having been married to a widower, been widowed and later marrying another widower as well as encountering several men on the widow/widower board, I have noticed that men seem to be ready earlier than women.
Also, if the person was terminally ill and that illness took a long time to run it’s course, the widowed person may have done a lot of grieving prior to the actual occurrence of death and might be ready to date earlier than ‘the experts’ predict.
The Comparison Game It’s a reasonable concern, worrying that a widow(er) will compare the next relationship to the one that came to a tragic end.
Keep in mind that it’s human nature to compare every relationship to a previous one, but that not every comparison is a bad one.
For me, it was 18 months before I considered dating again.
Over the last few years I've received hundreds of emails from women dating widowers.
And, the things that you may tolerate well when you start dating may make you want to choke him once you've fallen in love with him. They know how women think and they know what to say and do.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating