Been dating a couple of months

Younger couples, either in school or early in the career building stages of their lives leaned towards the 18 month range, while couples in their late twenties and beyond tended to have these discussions in the 6 to 12 month range.

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However, when I hear stories about disappointment, frustration, and insecurity about dates that haven’t worked out, there is a recurring theme: Do you know what this also means?

– They were too far along in investment and illusions to have their feet in reality enough to be working out whether this person was someone that they actually should be with.

We’ve made you a list of different from that of good friends.

You aren’t that serious yet, so preferring to spend a birthday with friends is totally normal. Possible, your date will mention a party or get-together to which you’ll be invited.

If you go, treat it as you would the birthday of a friend you very much like: bring a card, buy them drinks, etc.

Be sure to mingle with people, and don’t expect to spend the whole night by the birthday person’s side. If your date doesn’t have plans, you can offer to take him or her out for a birthday drink, but be wary of this.

Generally speaking, to get to the point of going on a date, there is some level of attraction there.

However, unless you’re superficial or living in Lala Land, the point of dating is to build on the attraction, get to know the person, and ensure that whatever ideas and assumptions you have are grounded in reality.

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Maybe this is what scares me about some of the stories I hear – I know that dating can be tough, especially if you’re doing it online.

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